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You may take this as a rant, of a disgruntled sailor, and disregard it, but I would like to say it anyways.
The Modern Chief's Mess is in some serious trouble. There are many reasons, of which I will list them out. 1. The navy has changed, and with it, so have the chiefs. Where once a Chief stood up for, mentored, and defended his people, in this day and age, he is more worried about covering his own backside, and more than willing to let the junior sailor take the fall. 2. The Chiefs mess is slowly rotting from within from dirty politicians. The current level of integrity in the chiefs mess is dropping considerably, and this has ALOT to do with the quality of people being accepted into the mess. I have seen people who willingly stab their shipmates in the back, take credit where none is due, bad mouth their shipmates, all to get that EP or good write up to make chief. If you think they grow up when they put on those khakis, think again. Also, since this is the way these people with low morals made their way into the mess, they feel that it is the way their junior people should make it into the mess, its a vicious cycle that is causing the entire quality of the mess to go down. 3. The "respect" due to the chiefs. Unfortunately while they teach us that respect goes up and down the chain of command, I have witnessed on too many occasions that this only applies to the e-6 and below. Many times have I witnessed gross displays of disrespect to junior sailors, with the sole reason being "I'm a chief". This is a lesson that perhaps needs to be relearned. 4. "Chief's take care of their own." This mentality drives a solid wedge between a sailor and his chief. Call it what you want, but a chiefs mess does not air its dirty laundry, and alot of times, keeps anything severe from happening when one of its own does mess up. This layer of protection causes morals to slip as well. Power corrupts. A junior sailor with a liberty incident (even an E-6) is made to apologize to the entire division, while a chief is swept under the rug, so as to not tarnish the image. My question is, what's the difference? I've seen things, even on this board, that basically defend chiefs, even when they are out of line. If a chief berates and belittles his people he must "just have a domineering personality." We had one sailor on my last ship who we put on suicide watch due to his "Domineering" chief. 6. Power corrupts. I've witnessed a chief rip into a junior sailor because that sailor did not do as told, and intentionally perform an illegal act (sabotage a pipe patch) so as to get the HT attention. Knowing that chief, while he yelled at the sailor for not doing it, had the sailor actually gotten into trouble while carrying out those orders, the chief would have left the sailor hanging. The chief's mess is sick, and it needs to get better, but the only way to do that is to take a good, long, honest look at itself. It needs to stand up and say that it will not accept the poor quality of chiefs its getting. Hold itself accountable for its actions, stop sweeping its problems under a rug. |
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Thank you for your observations. |
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Speaking as an OLD (Heavy on the OLD) CPO it is not just the CPO mess in trouble (in my estimation) It is the entire mind set of the CPO rates, I retired after 30+ years 18 of which were in the CPO rates, This was a period of time when being a CPO was a big deal, It was not just a change in pay grade it was a whole different world, For some foolish reason the Navy has seen fit to make the CPO just another pay grade, Case in point, During a reunion I attended in NAS Jax. I had the need to use the head, upon coming out I observed a CPO dressng down a 3rd. class for some reason, when he had finished his oratory the 3rd. class calmly said " go to hell chief " & walked away, I can say with no reservation that would not have happened when I was a CPO, there were any number of ways to take care of this type of action, I have no way of knowing if it was corrected but the 3rd. class walking away would not have happened, PERIOD. I Talked with the cpo and asked him how could that happen & his answer was there was NOTHING he could do, there were any number of things us OLD CPO's couldn't do either But they got done, During my service I probably dressed down as many JO's as I did enlisted members, but I was SURE I WAS RIGHT before doing anything to either. If it was important enough for me to get involved, You Damn better have listened, & I do believe that is passe in todays Navy, CYA was a second thought, doing the right thing was primary. Therein lies your leadership problem. Praise in public, Chew out in private. Works every time. Thank you for this oportunity to vent.
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You are right, but the bigger difference between the first class mess and the chief's mess is that in a way, the Chief's Mess selects it's members. It's this rewarding of this behavior (by promotion) that encourages it. Every chief influences the sailor below them. One bad chief really can ruin the pot, so to speak. It sets an example, that others follow (because its working). In away bad politicians are like the flu.
I do understand that, chief. I truly do. Some of the Chiefs at my command are great. Others give you the feel that they tolerated the first six pay grades until they reached the one they enlisted to be. It is definitely the perception that this sort of behavior is tolerated by the mess that sours sailors. You work for a chief who acts like that, and they never change. A junior sailor does not know where to turn, they feel that they cannot go to another chief, because the other chief will back up the other. They are uncertain of whether or not to go to EO or an officer, because if nothing is done the fear repercussions.
I would agree with you on this, but only to a point. There are incidents that happen, that the entire crew will know about. To hunker down and circle the wagons is in my opinion not the correct answer. I would (In my opinion) stand up, acknowledge the issue, and mention the steps being taken to deal with it. (Not specific details) but it shows to the crew that these matters are taken seriously and are not tolerated. It also goes a very long way in restoring the trust that has been eroding for years.
I do not know that the sailor would get in trouble. I do know that the order was illegal, and knowing that chief since he was a first class, I know that he would let the sailor take the fall IF he were to get into trouble. Chief, I thank you for taking the time to respond to this post. I hope the post did not come off as a blanket statement against all chiefs in the mess. I've met some great ones in my career, and I've met many poor ones as well. But I truly feel that the mess as a whole is in for some rough times if it does not address issues like these. We just did a climate survey at the command, and one of the questions was "Do you feel that you can give honest feedback to your chain of command without fear of repercussion?" The answer was a resounding no, with the stipulation that the crew felt it could trust the officers, but not the chiefs. Warranted or not, this is a VERY serious problem. |
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My .02 You make some valid points and there's no doubt the mess needs to do a little self-critiquing at times. But like boats said, you can say the same thing about the wardroom, and the first calss mes, and even the Navy in many respects.
Part of the problem IMO is this. Too many time some people get promoted(military & civilian), because they have put in their time, have a certain knowledge, or know the right people. CPO is a leadership position. Some people who are promoted, just aren't leaders. Not necessarily theri fault, but that's the way it is. I don't need to know the intricacies of every job. My job is to get the best out my people. Give them my expectations & goals, then get out of their way. I'm not here to make teh officer above me happy, I'm here to take care of teh people below me. If they're taken care of, the rest takes care of itself. I preach family and unity. Some CPOs agree with me, others do not. Not a problem, you should still work together as a mess. You have to care and love your people. But, don't mistake my love for weakness, because in my desire to mold you and to get your absolute best out of you, there are times when I will crawl right up your azz and 'train' you. I guess I'm getting a little off course here, but the main thing is the mess has to work together, but they also have to at times work on their own shortcomings. |
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I don't believe the Chief's Mess is in trouble, problems like those discribed can also be attributed to Command Climate of the ship or station. The skipper sets everyone up on the ship to succeed or not dependent on the goals and policies he sets. His style of leadership dictates the style of leadership of the Wardroom and the Chief's mess. The skipper has to give his managers the tools to succeed, or things like those discribed are going to happen. I am fortunate to serve with some of the finest the Navy has to offer, Chiefs that are still built from the same mold they were made from in 1981 when I was an E-1. The process isn't broken, and I believe it still sets the Navy apart from all other services in that regard.
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