Originally posted by catherine0830:
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Originally posted by sgtmom:
And kudos for going for the degree!!!!
Thanks!
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Thank you all for your support. DH got his mom to cease, now we just have to shut his sister up. Apparently she was wrong, the girl has never been arrested (no crap-court records are public info, I could figure that out). Last night she called to tell us her friends, friends, husband is a cop and said that "it's not that hard to figure out there's a sex offender-her brother-living there". WTF? I mean, come on. That's a pretty big accusation, esp. concidering I've never seen anyone other than the girl and her mom there when I've arrived many times unannounced, the state does background checks on anyone living in the house and preforms random inspections on the house (and even an accusation bars the house from being able to provide child care), there are no registered sex offenders living within a mile of her house or the elementary school right across the street, background check shows no brothers......and if this girl's husband is a COP and is that sure that there is a sex offender living in the house of a state-registered and certified childcare provider and living across the street from an elementary school, than he's a dirtbag and a **** poor cop for not turning the house in.
I've never gotten a bad feeling about the babysitter, the house, or the other kids there that she cares for. She's such a darling, very caring, and concerned about ensuring that the kids get everything they need (she even went so far as to ask which school-related areas my kids needed help on). I trust my opinion and ability to judge people much more so than my MIL or SIL, for MANY reasons. For one, my SIL keeps finding the best babysitters while she works
, she's gone through 3 in 6 months......oh, and none of hers have been registered and certified.
If DH's mom and sister want to talk about us behind our backs, that's fine. I really don't care. They didn't talk to us the whole time we were on the coast because it was too inconvenient for them, and now that we live here they think they can controll us. I just get ****ed that they try to drag us into their lies and speculations. The 2 of them are the worst rumour mills I have ever met.
