One morning I was sitting at my computer and the MGySgt screamed, "Shaw, get in here!" I ran to his office which was right across the hall and Locked in front of his desk. He told me to close the door. I knew it must be bad. He proceeded to tell me that NIS wanted to see me the next day and asked, "WHAT DID YOU DO?" I had NO idea what he was talking about.

He proceeded to ask me questions about the situation. He said that a certain SSgt had gone to NIS accusing another GySgt of sleeping with a certain Cpl, ME! This SSgt had told NIS that he actually saw me "nekked" in the Gunny's room when he went to wake the Gunny up for duty.

I ended up going to NIS the next day answering all their questions and of course denying it all. Then I had one of my own. "How the hell could I have been in the Gunny's room when I was sitting in the Duty Hut at the HQ with the Duty Officer?". This idiot SSgt was the SNCO on duty when I showed up for duty that morning when he had left to wake the Gunny who was late for duty.

I guess the idiot SSgt forgot to check the duty logs before going to NIS and accusing me.

I guess the SSgt really took it personal when I rebuffed his advances. He tried everything he could to screw me on paper afterwards. He is a mentally sick terd.

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I guess the SSgt really took it personal when I rebuffed his advances.

Maybe he was ticked because the GySgt wouldn't sleep with him. Don't ask, don't tell. Or perhaps he couldn't get a promotion, until he made room by removing the GySgt. Sounds like his beef was with the GySgt. It doesn't seem likely that a SSgt would accuse a GySgt of something like this, to get back at a Cpl.

There are idiots among all ranks and sexes. I for one would like to muzzle thump that guy.

Why call NIS and involve me BY NAME? Just calling NIS is a serious thing. Why not just go to the 1stSgt or CO about it?

Turned out that later on his wife slept with this GySgt and the GySgt was Court Martialed and discharged. Maybe it was HER that he thought he saw in the GySgts room?

Oh believe me, he had it in for me. He was a stalker too. Very bad person! I could write a book and maybe I will some day.

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Oh believe me, he had it in for me. He was a stalker too. Very bad person! I could write a book and maybe I will some day.

Why don't you? You could then retire. Remember that not all SNCO's stink. I've been called an azzhole a time or two, even in the civilian world. All it tells me is that I'm doing my job. Kinda like when your name hits the sh*thouse wall. You know your doing your job. And by the way, that SSGT will get everything he deserves in the end. They always do.

Well, I left this alone long enough, but before I continue with my one bad experience I've got to say that this was never the norm for SNCOs that I encountered.

Active duty in the wing, we were spoiled with the first Gunny I had. He was a "local boy" from Hawaii and the brother of a famous Hawaiian musician. Aloha Fridays were the norm and PT was an experience of fun and ball busting camaraderie, the Master Guns would PT with us because we were his favorites. Our next Supply Chief was not so cordial. Her was a soul brother and if you are asking "did I have to mention that?".

Yes, he did often, made an issue of it and let it be known that his world revolved around that fact.

Now maybe my opinion was skewed because I am white and he put me (the senior LCpl w/2 1/2 years TIS) on mess duty instead of one of 3 new boots, all pieces of sh@t due to the fact they all arrived boot Pvt from a school long enough that you make Pfc while there. they also just happen to all be black.

Although as evidence; while on mess duty I stopped by the shop one night before I went in at the chow hall ( I also got the night shift for mess duty). There was this one WM covering my shift now, she was a short timer (everyone's favorite, she was hot) as was another guy, both of them Desert Storm vets and on #of days and a wake up.

"The Gunny" walks in "well, well, well, what have we here", he tells the WM "Ranck, I knew I'd catch you goofing off". Then the Gunny goes rambling into some rant about "I know you Marines don't respect me 'cause I'm black and that's alright 'cause I hate you white bastards too". He continues with "Ranck (the WM) you don't even belong here, personally I don't think women belong in the Corps". The other Marine there (Clift, short-timer, no fear) says is that why you hook all the brothers up. Gunny replies "you G'damn right, why you think Beauchemin's (me) on mess duty".

None of us reported it, what the F for, no gain was going to be made out of it, it only reaffirmed what we already thought about him and proved to me (went in at 26) that there were sh@tty bosses everywhere, military and civilian.

As I mentioned earlier, it was my only bad SNCO experience and night shift on mess duty was skate.SSgt cook (my boss) on mess duty was a character. Firm, but funny, I got along with great, and for the record he was black.

Thanks for the story...
After this Sh*tbag sent me to office hours, which took a weeks pay, and 2 weeks extra duty...I was transferred to the HQ bldg at the Engineer School working for the Academics dept.

I was basically rescued by a LtCol (Director of Academics) who saw me there everynight doing my extra duty. He knew me prior to the "trouble" and he talked to me every night after I got done with extra duty. Like a mentor would. He asked for me to be transferred to him. He was terrific. When I reported the LtCol called me into his office and said to me, "I know what he did to you, I know everything that went down. You work for me know and all THAT history doesn't matter. You just do your best job for me and we will get along great!"

Then when my new Academics Chief checked in, MGySgt Tootle, he sat me down and tole me, "I know your Dad is along ways away from here and I know you miss him. You can just consider me you Black Daddy." I worked for him until he retired a couple years later. Still miss him.

You know what, throughout this whole ordeal with this jerk, there was a female GySgt right in the office within 15 feet of me and she never said a word to him about how he treated me. She just let him do it. She is the one I allowed to talk me out of pressing charges against him.

same story

differnt WM

Can we hear from a WM that wasn't maligned by a Male SNCO?

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Can we hear from a WM that wasn't maligned by a Male SNCO?

You mean while on Active Duty?

As far as I remember, I didn't have any myself. At least nothing was ever said to my face, my peers or subordinates that I was aware of. And I don't consider when I checked into my first "shop" and being assigned the Admin Clerk instead of my male counter part (he was a PFC, I was a LCpl) checking in at the same time, a reason to feel that I was being "maligned" by the SNCOIC - MGySgt...I saw it more as a “male chauvinistic move” personally.

Is that Evil or malicious? No, just saw it as old fashioned; as the man had been in the Marine Corps for 25+ years. Was he cantankerous? Most MGySgts that I met were during my time in. He even gave me grief because I got my hair cut too short one time; said it looked "eccentric" and not feminine enough to him...LOL

HELL...it was in the middle of summer out at YUMA, AZ for crispy sakes!! I heard he retired shortly after I PCS'd...LOL

I never stink! I wear Joop, my honey likes it.

Just don't catch me on a bad days ride in 98 degree temps.

Semper Fi

Johnny Blaze

I thought you said were sexually assaulted or raped by one

Dayum! You mean Johnny Blaze was sexually assaulted or raped by a SNCO?!?!

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Originally posted by wayoutfront:
I thought you said were sexually assaulted or raped by one

Guess you misunderstood the rank then...the Marine was a very DRUNK SGT from my own shop at WTI.

Nice try though; in fact, the SNCO's and Command was extremely supportive through the whole process. More than I can say for my now ex husband...and to remind everyone, NO...I did NOT get out after it was all over, I tried to stick it out for over two more years...

...Thanks though, for reving up those less than pleasant memories, WOF.

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Originally posted by SgtCyns_New_Beginning:
...Thanks though, for reving up those less than pleasant memories, WOF.

He would not have had the knowledge of the incident if you didn't put it out on the WWW for the world to see.

Did I hear "naked with a light coat of CLP!!!!!"

I didn't bring it up , you did , and MCS is right yo have put it out there,

Nice try though? what does that mean

My only crime is forgetting it was an NCO instead of a Staff NCO

again I ask Is there woman Marine that doesn't have story to tell about how the Marines screwed them up because they were women.



I am trying to figure out for when i am president am I going rethink the whole integrated Marine Corps

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Originally posted by CWOSKI:
Dayum! You mean Johnny Blaze was sexually assaulted or raped by a SNCO?!?!

It may have been Gunny B LOLOL

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Originally posted by wayoutfront:
I didn't bring it up , you did , and MCS is right yo have put it out there,

Nice try though? what does that mean - It means that...even though it happened, I hold NO ILL WILL towards any SNCO, OFFICERS or The Marine Corps as a whole concerning this particular event.

My only crime is forgetting it was an NCO instead of a Staff NCO

again I ask Is there woman Marine that doesn't have story to tell about how the Marines screwed them up because they were women. - I never said I blamed the Marine Corps for what happened to me or for "screwing up my life"...that honor goes to my now ex husband who would not support me and my decision to want to STAY in the Marine Corps after the whole thing was over!!

THAT'S RIGHT - you see, I didn't see it as a situation of "all Marines are bad and the Marine Corps sucks"...I saw it as a person can be raped no matter where they are now a days" and tried to move on with my life...requested and was granted that LAT move to a new MOS even...it was the constant interferance from my spouse that blew the whole thing for me.

That's how it was for me and that's what I have always stated. If I hated the Marine Corps so much, what the HELL would I want to be around Marines and be involved in several Marine Corps organizations still? Does that make any sense what so ever?

Have you EVER heard me talk negatively about the Marine Corps? I don't think so; maybe just about changing some policies to make training on more of an equal plane...but, I would say that's a positive thing over all...

Rape...Sexual Assault will happen to men & women no matter where they are; take them out of the Marine Corps or the military as a whole, it won't stop it...the creeps will still find a way to get to their subject.



I am trying to figure out for when i am president am I going rethink the whole integrated Marine Corps

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Originally posted by wayoutfront:

again I ask Is there woman Marine that doesn't have story to tell about how the Marines screwed them up because they were women.

Yes.

I repeat....
"Some SNCO's Stink"

What part of that don't SOME of you understand. I never blamed ALL SNCO's, nor did I blame the Marine Corps. I blame this POS SSgt that is a sub-human in my opinion.

Those of you that DON'T get it, will NEVER get it. You have not been through it to know what it feels like. If you did, you might begin to understand what it is like, male or female.

Try being in fear of your actual life since 1986 (21 years).

Try having a personal life when he is having people watching you or stalking you himself.

Try having NO RECOURSE against him for fear you would be brought up more charges.

Try having other SNCO's and Officer's in the room while being berated everyday with no help from them.

There is more, but you know what, Why do I bother? Its not worth the finger exersize.