my husband,is a master sergent in the Army Reserves who has been put on Active duty.Sgt. has all but abandoned us,even before going on active duty,he's had multiple affairs,we've been married 28 yrs and have 3 children,we're all depressed I suffer with Fybromyalgia,Chronic Fatigue Syndrome,Chronic Depression.Our daughter was in a Behavioral Center due to suicidal thoughts her dad came home 2 days before her release,he's being deployed to Kuwait,he only stayed 2 and a half days with us and most of that was spent with a drinking buddy,while he was here he was receiving calls and text messages from one of his mistresses he left behind in Virginia.Our daughter relapsed and is back in the center.I'm so stressed out all we want is a loving father and husband,she our daughter begged her dad to stay longer this was on Monday,she would be out of school on Friday,he left on Tuesday evening for Florida to visit his parents for six days,he sent some of his belongings there and had his Jeep full of things he's going to leave there along with the Jeep that we may need because he informed me that the transmission was gonna go on the car he brought me in April of this year.I don't have any information about life insurance or anything if an emergency happens,he's forwarded his mail to his parents,Ive tried to set up an appointment with a Lawyer.I'm a Christian I don't believe in divorce,he say he loves us and that he's not involved with anyone,but actions speak louder than words,is there something I should know about divorceing someone who's in the military so that I can get everything my children deserve.I'm disabled and will not be able to work again.Thanks for any advice.