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My husband is applying for OCS and I am very concerned about a situation I find myself in and how it may affect his future career. The short version of the story is-through naivete and predatory lending practices-I ended up on a home mortgage that I cannot pay for. Several lawyers have advised me to file bankruptcy to avoid losing the house, but others have advised me to let the house go to foreclosure because I am trying to sell it anyway. Both foreclosure and bankruptcy are hugely damaging to credit I know. My main concern, however, is I want to know if my financial issues will hurt my husband's chances of being accepted to OCS and/or potential future assignments. He is not on the mortgage loans, but he is listed on the title. When the notices come to the house, they are always addressed to me and the mortgage companies involved will not talk to him-only me. The house also does not show up on his credit reports. Does anyone have any knowledge about how this might affect him career-wise?
 
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I would just let it go into foreclosure. That will only effect one tradeline on your credit report, not all of them as a bankruptcy would. Since his name is not on the loan then it will never show up on his credit report.

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Hello again!

I'm relieved to hear that it won't show up on his credit report, but what do I do when I know (given the market in our area) that if I let it go to foreclosure then the mortgage companies will come after me for the difference between the loan amount and the amount bid at the auction(in this case probably 100-200K)? There's NO WAY I can afford to pay that and I'm afraid that I'll just end up declaring bankruptcy anyway. Thoughts?
 
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In a slow or declining housing market, lenders don't want the house back, so often they will work with buyers, and may be willing to convert your loan to interest only or even reduce your monthly payment into 'reverse interest' or capitalized interest loans, which, like an unsubsidized Stafford student loan, will simply take the amount of interest underpayments and add them to your principal. Of course, for this to work for you, you'll need a future of grwoing income so that you'll eventually be able to make the full P&I payment. But it sounds like it may serve your interests better than a straight foreclosure. You'll need to contact your lender to see if this is even an option.

And yes you are correct, a foreclosure may have the lender coming after you for the net difference between what the lender got after the house is auctioned and the loan balance. I've read where some lenders allow homeowners to do a home 'short sale', where the lender will take whatever you can sell the house for and forgive the remaining balance of the loan. But this can be equally undesirable, as the IRS will then consider whatever this shortfall is to be ordinary income that will be taxable to you.

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And one other point I forgot to mention. You might want to check with a bankruptcy attorney about a Chapter 13. Under this form of bankruptcy, your debts are not erased. Instead, they are reorganized at a rate you can afford. You must have a steady income to do this, but if you can, the creditor is generally required to take the payment that is determined. This is often used with credit card debt, and I'm not sure about mortgage debt.

BTW, a note to the moderator. My above post was signed as IRA_Gal. Not sure who that is, but it sure ain't me.

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Thanks for the advice. I've got an appointment with a bankruptcy attorney this week. The lender is not willing to do a short sale because I have an 80/20 mortgage-hence two mortagage companies make short sale near unto impossible. It's a REALLY complicated situation. Most of the professionals I have talked to (outside mortgage people, lawyers, real estate agents, etc.) are stunned at how the mortgage was done in the first place. My primary concern is my husband's ability to get the MOS he wants (within the realm of the needs of the Army of course). I can deal with the financial as needed.

I don't know how Ch. 13 would effect mortgages either, but I'm sure the attorney will have information on that. I hate to pay someone bucks to help me through this, but after the mistakes that have been made in the past year-I'm almost afraid not to seek legal advice.

Anyway, thanks for your input. I'm also open to any other thoughts/suggestions anyone might have on this topic. I can't be the only one in this situation.....Thanks again!
 
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And one other point I forgot to mention. You might want to check with a bankruptcy attorney about a Chapter 13. Under this form of bankruptcy, your debts are not erased. Instead, they are reorganized at a rate you can afford. You must have a steady income to do this, but if you can, the creditor is generally required to take the payment that is determined. This is often used with credit card debt, and I'm not sure about mortgage debt.

BTW, a note to the moderator. My above post was signed as IRA_Gal. Not sure who that is, but it sure ain't me.

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Perhaps it was relative by the name of Lynn C. Miller, who happens to live in WA?
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If you are going to do the bankruptcy then do it as a Chapter 7. With what you have said here, a Chapter 13 will only make matters worse.

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Suggest you contact, "Deleted" on how to legally set up a Trust. Then set the house in your Trust. This way, your Trust takes the loss and not you.

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Putting the house in a trust will not do 1 single thing for obsolving you of the liability through a bankruptcy.
 
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My husband is applying for OCS and I am very concerned about a situation I find myself in and how it may affect his future career. The short version of the story is-through naivete and predatory lending practices-I ended up on a home mortgage that I cannot pay for. Several lawyers have advised me to file bankruptcy to avoid losing the house, but others have advised me to let the house go to foreclosure because I am trying to sell it anyway. Both foreclosure and bankruptcy are hugely damaging to credit I know. My main concern, however, is I want to know if my financial issues will hurt my husband's chances of being accepted to OCS and/or potential future assignments. He is not on the mortgage loans, but he is listed on the title. When the notices come to the house, they are always addressed to me and the mortgage companies involved will not talk to him-only me. The house also does not show up on his credit reports. Does anyone have any knowledge about how this might affect him career-wise?


When you have a problem like this, talk to your lender about loan modification. They don't want your home. I got a modification, and I'm a full time student and widow of a vet. If not that, try a short sell. That means you sell your home for a little less than what you owe, and sometimes the lender will accept the amount on the note that's short. At least with both of these ways, your credit doesn't suffer severe damage.

Bad credit does have an effect on the career of an officer. As far as the letters (CIA, NSA, etc.) are concerned, anyone with money problems is a threat to national security. As there are thousands of us with money problems these past 4 years, maybe you can slip under their radar.

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Once any bank or mortgage company even mentions foreclosure, get an attorney to protect yourself. I recently thought I was working out a mitigation arrangement with my mortgage company and while we were negotiating, they were setting up for foreclosure- even had an appraiser sneaking around the property. My next notice from them was a Deputy with a foreclosure notice. Protect yourself!
 
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