Im currently deployed to Iraq and have requested emergency leave to go home. i went to the chaplain, and have gone through my chain of command all the way up to the battalion commander. My issue is that my wife is bipolar and has become suicidal and has begun not to care about life. This is an issue that requires immediate attention, but my chain of command disagrees. i know you can get a red cross message sent but there isnt a way to get one sent as i dont have the info that i need. please help