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( im almost 49 years old, and still in excellent shape)I would eagerly return. I realize that though I am still in excellent condition, I am "old" concerning the current conflict,....that is a YOUNG MANS GAME.

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I'm 43. I just got back. I don't think it's a young man's game, and I'd go as far as to say things would be alot better if we had more old soldiers. Our judgement almost always exceeds the younger troopers. Dedication, mission focus, the ability to handle situations as they arise...all exceed the younger troopers. Our life experience enables us to handle horrible situations alot better. We don't waste time learning how to do basic things in combat because we already know how (to change tires, jerry rig, self recover...all the old tricks.) And anecdotally speaking? I met young troops who could run faster, and bench more, but not a one that could stay alert, or focused, or outlast one of us old guys. Not one.
My best friend and I, he's 46, volunteered for deployment because we were tired of seeing broken young men and women and figured if we went there'd be at least two less youngsters with a lot of life to live required to go. I don't know how valid our theory was, we ended up seeing alot more broken youngsters...and that was hard.
But as far as the PTSD...Ruanne has IMHO hit on the real reason more women are suffering from it. It's true that women are more likely to report it. There is a stigma attached to "not having nerves of steel" for men.
Another factor not mentioned yet is that the VA and the Army, seem to be "pushing" PTSD. My friend and I, having been shot at and blown up a couple of times were told that we qualify for disability under PTSD if we: Have dreams about it, think about it when we don't want to, can't sleep, get headaches...a whole list of stuff that is easy to claim, and impossible to disprove. I think, for some reason, they want as many of us Vets in the system as they can get. A few years ago, when you returned from deployment, the VA rep would push tintivitus, or ringing in the ears. Easy to claim, impossible to disprove...and it'd get you in the system with a disability. Next thing you know, we're all required to wear earplugs in combat. Then it switched to TBI and PTSD. I think there's a bit bureaucratic politics going on here and what really torches me and my friends is that we see a bunch of people lining up to take a slice of the services and benefits that really injured and disabled warriors have coming to them.
We had dreams about it. We thought about it when we didn't want to, but hey, I've got ex-girlfriends that I'd like to never think about again too. And they too occasionally make an appearance on the concious stage of my mind...that's just life.
We'll just have no part of it. The benefits should be there for those who need it, not for those who can simply take advantage of it.
 
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It certainly doesn't make any difference whether one is toting a weapon at an FOB, driving a truck or vehicle in a convoy, doing guard duty at an operating base, flying a chopper, or doing time at sea (brown water, littoral, or blue water); or whether you are male or female...these psychological traumas are happening, & must be dealt with, most honorably & fairly, by our Nation. It should be well remembered that; all who have served, are serving, & who will serve should & must be accorded whatever needs to be done in order to deal with this affliction, & to be able to get on with their lives. After all, they most certainly have extended themselves for their Nation, "light years" more so than those who whine or complain & not serve; & those who pacify & lend apologies & defenses to our enemies. May the Good Lord always bless& protect our Great nation, along with our brave & courageous men & women in uniform serving it....
Well said I concur 100%
 
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I think shes cute,....war is a mans world,....sure, our female veterans are doing an outstanding job,....but, is it worth the obvious damage to them? I do not intend to demean them,...I am just old fashioned, and feel they serve better as medical, and other non-combat related fields.

I speak from experience,...not from a book.


Yeah, too bad she's not a guy, because guys don't get PTSD ... oh, wait ...

This article does not give any comparative analysis between male and female soldiers suffering PTSD and seems to suggest that only women suffer from this problem when we all know that ain't true. So I'm not sure what the author's point is, except maybe to say that even the so-called rear echelon types are getting PTSD, but that's true for everyone in an exposed occupation such as convoy driver, transportation specialist, MP, etc. Since anyone can be blown up at any time, no matter what their MOS or location in country, maybe the point of the article should have been that even people - male and female - in positions that ordinarily would have been deemed less stressful are instead experiencing great stress because of the nature of the conflict. I think added to this, too, is the fact that a lot of military women have complained about sexual harassment by their fellow soldiers and commanders. This adds to their stress in a completely unacceptable and controllable

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Yes, well you left out the women who abuse men while in the service... You know, the few (Equal in number to the men who sexually harass,) who, if they don't like the order, or how they are treated, even if equal, scream sexual harassment or just don't follow orders because they feel they don't have too. The women who have something to prove at the cloak and dagger of a man (or another female)...
Let's not get started on the controlling wives 80% of the married men of my Arty unit had...
 
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What branch was MarineAuntie in,....?

My post was not meant to demean women, nor state that men are not susceptible to PTSD,...I speak from actual military experience, and current work experience,...women, as a rule, are not physically, or emotionally as strong as most men. That is a medical fact,....thus, they are NOT allowed in actual COMBAT roles.

Womens liberation has both helped women, and in cases such as these, as well as female police, and firefighters, HURT them, because they just do not NORMALLY pack the gear to fully perform the jobs they are assigned.

By the same token, most men are not qualified to fullfill roles historically performed by women.


Being truthful is the farthest thing from being sexist a man can get. Thanks for your post and hopefully people get it.
 
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war is a mans world,......

I am just old fashioned, and feel they serve better as medical, and other non-combat related fields.

I speak from experience,...not from a book.


BRAVO ZULU, My feelings exactly...

No point in debating the pros and cons concerning women in combat. Theory is over. This is reality. I don’t necessarily see PTSD and TBI as more or less tragic in female soldiers as in male soldiers. The point that needs to be made IMHO is that we are not only unprepared to deal with these combat related maladies in the numbers of male soldiers returning, we are way unprepared to deal with them in women. Just the number of resident treatment beds available to female vets alone is totally unrealistic. This Country needs to take action now, rather than expecting the problem to go away. Our experience with previous conflicts indicates it won’t go away. We need to take care of our wounded warriors regardless of sex.


Ummm? Actually there is a point in debating the pros and cons... It is called casualties..

With wars there are no do overs. Whatever makes us militarily stronger as a nation should indeed be debated. I would support the same situation if it was reversed...

Is there a debate about having 400 lb out of shape men running (Or wheezing) around the combat field? Yes, and for good reason.
 
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Originally posted by SheepdogA39:
( im almost 49 years old, and still in excellent shape)I would eagerly return. I realize that though I am still in excellent condition, I am "old" concerning the current conflict,....that is a YOUNG MANS GAME.

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I'm 43. I just got back. I don't think it's a young man's game, and I'd go as far as to say things would be alot better if we had more old soldiers. Our judgement almost always exceeds the younger troopers. Dedication, mission focus, the ability to handle situations as they arise...all exceed the younger troopers. Our life experience enables us to handle horrible situations alot better. We don't waste time learning how to do basic things in combat because we already know how (to change tires, jerry rig, self recover...all the old tricks.) And anecdotally speaking? I met young troops who could run faster, and bench more, but not a one that could stay alert, or focused, or outlast one of us old guys. Not one.
My best friend and I, he's 46, volunteered for deployment because we were tired of seeing broken young men and women and figured if we went there'd be at least two less youngsters with a lot of life to live required to go. I don't know how valid our theory was, we ended up seeing alot more broken youngsters...and that was hard.
But as far as the PTSD...Ruanne has IMHO hit on the real reason more women are suffering from it. It's true that women are more likely to report it. There is a stigma attached to "not having nerves of steel" for men.
Another factor not mentioned yet is that the VA and the Army, seem to be "pushing" PTSD. My friend and I, having been shot at and blown up a couple of times were told that we qualify for disability under PTSD if we: Have dreams about it, think about it when we don't want to, can't sleep, get headaches...a whole list of stuff that is easy to claim, and impossible to disprove. I think, for some reason, they want as many of us Vets in the system as they can get. A few years ago, when you returned from deployment, the VA rep would push tintivitus, or ringing in the ears. Easy to claim, impossible to disprove...and it'd get you in the system with a disability. Next thing you know, we're all required to wear earplugs in combat. Then it switched to TBI and PTSD. I think there's a bit bureaucratic politics going on here and what really torches me and my friends is that we see a bunch of people lining up to take a slice of the services and benefits that really injured and disabled warriors have coming to them.
We had dreams about it. We thought about it when we didn't want to, but hey, I've got ex-girlfriends that I'd like to never think about again too. And they too occasionally make an appearance on the concious stage of my mind...that's just life.
We'll just have no part of it. The benefits should be there for those who need it, not for those who can simply take advantage of it.


Strength has nothing to do with age, more or less to do with the heart... Don't ask me to talk about most of the older men back in my unit... At the same time, the same can be said about the Youngins that were there too...

Age this and age that, I get sick of hearing it. It may well be that a new generation, one that has been bread an easy life, is weaker than previous generations... However, again, that is not related to age at all but rather the generation...

However, moving back to my unit, the troops that were hard, dedicated and able to stay focused... They were young and old but each had the mind and heart...
 
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To the topic:that doesn't suprise me.Get help if you need it,ANYONE!
 
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No doubt PTSD can be an issue among men and women, but the example in the article is not typical.

She is a female AF MSgt at Camp Victory, consider that Victory is probably the nicest location in Iraq. Now she could have been doing something that took her out the wire, but that is unlikely. Next her tour was probably 120-180 days not the 15 months faced by the majority of the people there. What was it about her tour that caused the stress, if it is PTSD then what was the trauma. I am not belittling her service but having been there daily life at Victory is not that traumatic.
 
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We have excellent information and links on PTSD on Military.com
http://forums.military.com/eve/forums/a/frm/f/4230026980001


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This article really frustrates me. Great, they have factual evidence that PTSD has risen with military females. What is the evidence on men's rates with the nature of this war? In addition, they mentioned that females are serving more in combat roles now than ever in history, but they did not link that to being the cause of the increase. If women had been serving in these types of roles for the past 50 years would there be an increase? of course not, so why are we honing in on this fact like it's the end all, be all of arguments on women in combat?

I completely agree with restrictions on women in traditional combat roles. Not because they wouldn't be qualified (although I agree that 95% wouldn't be), but more so because of what female integration does to all male units that are ideally just warfighters. Now, having females on the battlefield is a huge benefit in today's war because of the interaction with the populace, etc. However, to post a picture of a young pretty girl who reminds everyone of their little sister on the cheerleading squad, and try to scare everyone with the idea that women are naturally more inclined to have issues after being in combat is absolutely unfair. There are women all over our Army who are defying the stereotypes, and in all honesty, are probably under more pressure than the men, because they are in a combat zone, but don't get treated the same and do not have the same opportunities for true commaraderie that men do.

Yes, you have guessed right, I am a woman, currently deployed and LEADING combat patrols in Iraq with ALL MEN. I have had my share of traumatic moments, but the effects on me are no worse or better than those effects I've seen on my male soldiers. Sure, there are females here who have had trouble, but we've also had males with the same issues. This is probably too long of a response to such a short article, but honestly, my issue with it was not in the fundamental subject itself, as much as with the way in which is was presented. I also have a husband leading in combat in Iraq right now as well. I am truly grateful for the opportunity to serve my country in the same capacity as my husband does. Sure, I look and act like a normal American girl - but I signed my name to take the same risks if asked of me, and I expect to be just as vulnerable to PTSD or anything else as my male counterparts. I'm really sick of the female issue being an issue, because I've seen far too many exceptions to the rule!

God bless all men and women who have raised their right hand to do whatever was asked of them and to lead our country into an unknown future. War is difficult - maybe if more civilians stepped up to the plate, stereotypical women wouldn't have to serve, but what does it matter? Even with all the men sitting on their lazy behinds at home, smoking dope or watching the latest celebrity sagas on TV and driving around in their expensive car that far outweighs his paycheck, women in the military (instinctually weaker or not) will never get the same respect because of articles like this. You can call me feminist, but put yourself in my shoes as a person and a soldier and you may understand.
 
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What branch was MarineAuntie in,....?

My post was not meant to demean women, nor state that men are not susceptible to PTSD,...I speak from actual military experience, and current work experience,...women, as a rule, are not physically, or emotionally as strong as most men. That is a medical fact,....thus, they are NOT allowed in actual COMBAT roles.

Womens liberation has both helped women, and in cases such as these, as well as female police, and firefighters, HURT them, because they just do not NORMALLY pack the gear to fully perform the jobs they are assigned.

By the same token, most men are not qualified to fullfill roles historically performed by women.


Always love it when a guy explains the reasons why women should or shouldn't do anything. PTSD is not just a "combat" related malady, it can be and is caused by any number of traumatic events in a person's life, war being the most obvious.

Therefore, most of the comments made so far by the men in here are based on the political and social sides of the debate. We all know women can shoot as straight as any man, and if they want to serve in Combat roles, they should be able to.

And frankly, that photo on the front page sure as hell looks like a woman serving in a "ground combat" role to me. (Any small "male" soldiers out there??? You better believe it.)

I salute ALL the women who may be fighting in combat. Just be prepared to have a LOT of patience to fight for your benefits when you come back. And remember, the people who you will be seeing for just about any Veterans outreach program after your tour is up? They will be administered by men, very similar to the ones who post in HERE.
 
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This article really frustrates me. Great, they have factual evidence that PTSD has risen with military females. What is the evidence on men's rates with the nature of this war? In addition, they mentioned that females are serving more in combat roles now than ever in history, but they did not link that to being the cause of the increase. If women had been serving in these types of roles for the past 50 years would there be an increase? of course not, so why are we honing in on this fact like it's the end all, be all of arguments on women in combat?

I completely agree with restrictions on women in traditional combat roles. Not because they wouldn't be qualified (although I agree that 95% wouldn't be), but more so because of what female integration does to all male units that are ideally just warfighters. Now, having females on the battlefield is a huge benefit in today's war because of the interaction with the populace, etc. However, to post a picture of a young pretty girl who reminds everyone of their little sister on the cheerleading squad, and try to scare everyone with the idea that women are naturally more inclined to have issues after being in combat is absolutely unfair. There are women all over our Army who are defying the stereotypes, and in all honesty, are probably under more pressure than the men, because they are in a combat zone, but don't get treated the same and do not have the same opportunities for true commaraderie that men do.

Yes, you have guessed right, I am a woman, currently deployed and LEADING combat patrols in Iraq with ALL MEN. I have had my share of traumatic moments, but the effects on me are no worse or better than those effects I've seen on my male soldiers. Sure, there are females here who have had trouble, but we've also had males with the same issues. This is probably too long of a response to such a short article, but honestly, my issue with it was not in the fundamental subject itself, as much as with the way in which is was presented. I also have a husband leading in combat in Iraq right now as well. I am truly grateful for the opportunity to serve my country in the same capacity as my husband does. Sure, I look and act like a normal American girl - but I signed my name to take the same risks if asked of me, and I expect to be just as vulnerable to PTSD or anything else as my male counterparts. I'm really sick of the female issue being an issue, because I've seen far too many exceptions to the rule!

God bless all men and women who have raised their right hand to do whatever was asked of them and to lead our country into an unknown future. War is difficult - maybe if more civilians stepped up to the plate, stereotypical women wouldn't have to serve, but what does it matter? Even with all the men sitting on their lazy behinds at home, smoking dope or watching the latest celebrity sagas on TV and driving around in their expensive car that far outweighs his paycheck, women in the military (instinctually weaker or not) will never get the same respect because of articles like this. You can call me feminist, but put yourself in my shoes as a person and a soldier and you may understand.


What is your MOS? What Infantry Division are you assigned to?
 
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I completely agree with restrictions on women in traditional combat roles. Not because they wouldn't be qualified (although I agree that 95% wouldn't be), but more so because of what female integration does to all male units that are ideally just warfighters. Now, having females on the battlefield is a huge benefit in today's war because of the interaction with the populace, etc. However, to post a picture of a young pretty girl who reminds everyone of their little sister on the cheerleading squad, and try to scare everyone with the idea that women are naturally more inclined to have issues after being in combat is absolutely unfair.


Absolute Balderdash.

I love that line... "Male Units"? THAT is what drives most of what the men are saying, without really saying it... eh? "Male Units" are THE reason why women frighten men in the military. Got to get over it.

Think there aren't any young "pretty" men in uniform out there? Ask any women to look at any 10 soldiers... she'll find at least 1 or 2 "pretty" ones. How do women "looking better" than the next guy or gal make ANY difference to their ability to fight and die for their country?

Also, how did you come by that figure of "95%" who wouldn't be qualified? How on Earth could you know that? You couldn't.

Also, women are acknowledged to be STRONGER "emotionally" than most men, but from what I remember of my days in the Navy, there were plenty of frightened little punks around(males), goldbricking - while the rest of us ran the ship.

Lastly, our Navy now has tens of thousands of WOMEN serving on Warships, many IN that area of the world, which means they are already serving in "Combat Roles".

( I wish we could have served with women on my ships, back in the early 1970's. )
 
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I'm 43. I just got back. I don't think it's a young man's game, and I'd go as far as to say things would be alot better if we had more old soldiers. Our judgement almost always exceeds the younger troopers. Dedication, mission focus, the ability to handle situations as they arise...all exceed the younger troopers. Our life experience enables us to handle horrible situations alot better. We don't waste time learning how to do basic things in combat because we already know how (to change tires, jerry rig, self recover...all the old tricks.) And anecdotally speaking? I met young troops who could run faster, and bench more, but not a one that could stay alert, or focused, or outlast one of us old guys. Not one.


Not even one, eh? Nice comment on the state of our military. Gosh, I feel so much better.

This is the ONLY conflict in recent history in which we have allowed HUGE numbers of older soldiers not only to sign-up, but to then serve in Combat. Reason: Because they have made the requirements LESS intense than they were because they are short on recruits.

I don't care how healthy a person is, at 43 you are NOT as physically fit nor do you have the endurance of a 23 year old soldier. So there aren't any 23 year old E-6's with experience who can do the job as well as you, at 43? Nonsense man.

I am glad you are healthy, and even gladder you made it out of that sand-heap and home, alive.

But I would rather have #10 twenty-three year old Marines with 3-5 years combat experience coming to my rescue in a fire-fight than ANY #10 forty-three year old Marines - with the exact same amount of experience, any day.

No offense... But the truth is that if there were more 20-23 year olds signing up to serve, you would never have been sent there in the 1st place.
 
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While I am no "expert",being a nurse has afforded me an opinion on PTSD.What an individual goes through in life and how an event effect's that individual,varies in severity.An event can have devestatingly debilitating result's on one person,and a similar event on another may not have a similar if any effect.Than later on in a person's life,this event may have a re-ocurring effect.Mental Health is a tricky area,there is not one treatment that help's everyone the same.JMHO
 
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In response to the "all male units" comment. Am I wrong that there are all male units? (i.e. infantry, special forces, armor, etc etc) That description seems to have been taken out of context of the argument. Which, by the way, if you read it over you will notice that I actually have no problem with "all male units" existing, and that was not the point of my statement. I'm afraid that part was read into a little too far.

Second, yes, I agree there are "pretty" males just like females in the Army. Again, taken out of context. I was referring to the presentation of the article in relation to how it frustrated me. I read other people's responses to it that said things like "aww she's cute.." etc etc. Which is more in line with my theory that they used a picture like that to create an emotional response in people reading it that females are more vulnerable than men to PTSD. I never said that looking better as a male or female made it any more different than how they fight and die for their country.

I obviously threw out 95% as an estimate. Of course I have no way of knowing. But as you stated, you never served with women, so I do believe I may be more qualified to take an educated guess on that percentage, being that I have a lot of experience working with women in the Army and in putting women up to the test of Ranger School or SF selection, etc, I would venture to say that maybe even less than 5% could make it. That is no bash to my gender, just my opinion, in knowing the physical capabilities of myself and my female peers. Still, that doesn't mean that 95% wouldn't succeed in combat- for the third time, taken out of context.

and yes, women are serving in combat roles around the world. To include me. Therefore, I'm not sure what your last points were arguing, being that I was merely pointing out the same issue. Maybe I wasn't clear that although I agree with women serving an important role in combat today, that doesn't mean that they are in "traditional combat arms branches" or should be for that matter. I think we are doing just fine where we are now in terms of opportunities, and Infantry, Armor, SF, etc can stay all male as it already is.

Sir, I'm not quite sure what point you were attempting to argue, but it sounds like I already had most of them covered. Maybe what you were arguing (as I was about the article) was that you didn't agree with my presentation on the matter.
 
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my branch is MP, unit 82nd ABN DIV, and no I'm not a leg as most old-timer's are upset that we have legs in our unit these days. I noticed you are in NC as well...what unit were you with?
 
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why thank you! that was a much warmer welcome that weatherguesser's interrogation. I actually don't do forums like this, EVER. I just happened to stumble across the article while looking for some information for one of my soldiers and it somehow struck a chord. I especially try not to get caught up in the women in the military debate since it's pretty personal to me, and I really just want to be seen as a soldier.
 
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