Jetpilot thanks for passig this along, it's hard for us to realise just how easy it is for us to be there one day and gone the next, may his children be protectd and his wife have wisdom through this nightmare.
When my husband (Floyd Stormer CWO 4) when he was alive he said "I want a burial with the Coast Guard ceremony. Rex, his son came down to FL where I was living and drove me up to Salsbury NC. He is buried with his ship mates. The CG came up and gave me his flag. I took it back to FL I drove home back to San Pedro CA. I was brain dead. Rex was brain dead, Eventually I gave Floyds flag to his son. He died in 1999 I miss him to this day. I never got remarried I live in San Pedro CA