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Calif. school defends DWI shock tactics
Students were told classmates had died in car wrecks — they hadn't

OCEANSIDE, Calif. - On a Monday morning last month, highway patrol officers visited 20 classrooms at El Camino High School to announce some horrible news: Several students had been killed in car wrecks over the weekend.

Classmates wept. Some became hysterical.

A few hours and many tears later, though, the pain turned to fury when the teenagers learned that it was all a hoax — a scared-straight exercise designed by school officials to dramatize the consequences of drinking and driving.

As seniors prepare for graduation parties Friday, school officials in the largely prosperous San Diego suburb are defending themselves against allegations they went too far.

At school assemblies, some students held up posters that read: "Death is real. Don't play with our emotions."

'They got the shock they wanted'
Michelle de Gracia, 16, was in physics class when an officer announced that her missing classmate David, a popular basketball player, had died instantly after being rear-ended by a drunken driver. She said she felt nauseated but was too stunned to cry.

"They got the shock they wanted," she said.


Some of her classmates became extremely upset, prompting the teacher to tell them immediately it was all staged.

"People started yelling at the teacher," she said. "It was pretty hectic."

Others, including many who heard the news of the 26 deaths between classes, were left in the dark until the missing students reappeared hours later.

"You feel betrayed by your teachers and administrators, these people you trust," said 15-year-old Carolyn Magos. "But then I felt selfish for feeling that way, because, I mean, if it saves one life, it's worth it."

'We wanted them to be traumatized'
Officials at the 3,100-student school officials defended the program.

"They were traumatized, but we wanted them to be traumatized," said guidance counselor Lori Tauber, who helped organize the shocking exercise and got dozens of students to participate. "That's how they get the message."

The plan was to tell the truth to the students at an assembly later in the day. But word that it was all a hoax began to spread before the gathering. Tauber said some counselors and administrators revealed the truth to calm some students who had become upset.

Oceanside Schools Superintendent Larry Perondi said he fielded only a few calls from parents, while the PTA chapter said it had not heard any complaints. Perondi said the program would be revised, but he would not say how. And he said he was glad that students seemed to have gotten the message.

"We did this in earnest," he said. "This was not done to be a prankster."

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When using a "reasonable person standard"...this was a tad over the top in my opinion.
 
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When using a "reasonable person standard"...this was a tad over the top in my opinion.


I don't know. I kinda think it was a good idea. Teenagers all feel invicible. They need to be shocked into realizing they aren't.

They should probably use a similar tactic when it comes to VD..
 
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During prom season our local school district every year presents "Every 60 Seconds" wherein a staged presentation just as above students are "killed" and "maimed" in a "DWI/DUI" accident at the hands of another student, a friend, much like what happened in the life of Hulk Hogan's son and his friend/Iraq War veteran. It is very effective. We have never lost a kid on prom night in our district - although the year my oldest graduated high school one of the top honor students with the most promising of futures was killed on St. Patrick's Day in just such an accident. My oldest son told me the other day that is the reason he does not drink, although legally he is of age. When he goes out with friends or on a date, he thinks of and remembers the life of his friend, Amanda.

Whatever keeps our kids alive is a very good idea and to heck with how "politically correct" it may be.


So make the best of this test, and don't ask why.
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My first reaction was along the same lines as that of Sea Witch but after a bit of thought, so much of what teens themselves do these days is "over the top", at least in comparison to my teen years. If it saves one teen from a DUI, much less a fatal traffic accident, it is worth it IMHO.
 
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typical liberals lying to kids to scare them....


 
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At first I thought it was too extreme but after reflection, I remember how invulnerable I and my friends were in high school. Bad things always happened to somebody else.

Maybe it'll make somebody think and realize how they felt when one of their friends "died". And when it's for real they won't be coming back.
 
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Hey, if it is a "liberal" scheme to scare the sh*t out of them and it works - then it is not a bad idea.

Our Fire and Sheriff's Department run our program. There is a totally destroyed car put on display after it has been removed off the street just as the school day begins. The juniors and seniors see the jaws of life extractions of their peers - very well made up. Usually two are dead and one has to be air-lifted from the athletic field. Those kids are then "housed" away from school for the next several days. There is even a school memorial service for the kids that are "killed". The grim reaper even arrives over the course of the next day into the classrooms and collects seniors those days at random to give a visual to the statistic and those kids are also "housed" away from from the campus for a couple of days. The juniors and seniors really get involved as they are asked to write memoriams and eulogies for their friends. Trust me - it has impacted all four of my kids.

It's a very good idea and more school districts should be willing to scare the sh*t out of our kids so that they don't become that "Every 60 seconds" statistic. Good for the school and to heck with parents who care more about being their kids' buddies than they care about keeping their kids alive.


So make the best of this test, and don't ask why.
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I hope you had the time of your life.
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At first I thought it was too extreme but after reflection, I remember how invulnerable I and my friends were in high school. Bad things always happened to somebody else.

Maybe it'll make somebody think and realize how they felt when one of their friends "died". And when it's for real they won't be coming back.


well what about the same thing for absoant only programs or anti gay programs???


 
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This is complete horseshit, and a horrid way to treat those who you are not only training to become better adults, but who are also in your care (physically and mentally). Are my eyes deceiving me? Am I seeing some here agreeing that mental torment - as long as it's in the best interest - is a perfectly acceptable tactic? Stop looking at the bigger picture of the potential results and focus on the bigger picture of the reality - lying is lying.

You realize, of course, that it’s not just teenage students; virtually all of us, regardless of age, are susceptible to, "if they seem skeptical at first, let's use scare tactics to convince them of what we believe is truly in their best interest."

... it will work en masse every time but only once per costumer; those employing it will often get exactly what they initially want but will have to pay the price of having it destroy nearly all further trust in the long run.


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This is complete horseshit, and a horrid way to treat those who you are not only training to become better adults, but who are also in your care (physically and mentally). Are my eyes deceiving me? Am I seeing some here agreeing that mental torment - as long as it's in the best interest - is a perfectly acceptable tactic? Stop looking at the bigger picture of the potential results and focus on the bigger picture of the reality - lying is lying.

You realize, of course, that it’s not just teenage students; virtually all of us, regardless of age, are susceptible to, "if they seem skeptical at first, let's use scare tactics to convince them of what we believe is truly in their best interest."

... it will work en masse every time but only once per costumer; those employing it will often get exactly what they initially want but will have to pay the price of having it destroy nearly all further trust in the long run.


"Ladies and gentlemen, these are not assertions. These are facts, corroborated by many sources, some of them sources of the intelligence services of other countries."
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"We don't want the smoking gun to be a mushroom cloud."
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alright we agree....


 
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alright we agree....

On this point, yes, we do - 100%.

Any liberal who agrees that this was an okay tactic with which to torment kids, simply because the eventual results might be worth it, is a complete hypocrite, and has no right to EVER criticize the tactics employed by the Bush administration in the run up to the Iraq war.
 
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When Amanda was killed crossing the street after celebrating St. Patrick's Day - ALL of us wished it was a lie. It wasn't. Kids die for stupid reasons. Drunk drivers are the #1 reason.


So make the best of this test, and don't ask why.
It's not a question, but a lesson learned in time.
It's something unpredictable, but in the end is right.
I hope you had the time of your life.
- Green Day
 
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They should probably use a similar tactic when it comes to VD..

Yeah - break out a few of those old 50's-era syphillis movies the DoD produced.

"The Return of Count Spyrochete"...


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... it will work en masse every time but only once per costumer; those employing it will often get exactly what they initially want but will have to pay the price of having it destroy nearly all further trust in the long run.

Bingo. Any parent with half a brain realizes this.


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When Amanda was killed crossing the street after celebrating St. Patrick's Day - ALL of us wished it was a lie. It wasn't. Kids die for stupid reasons. Drunk drivers are the #1 reason.


drunk driving overdosing aids... ive know more teens to die from drug overdosing then in a car wreck.... hell they didnt even have cars....just homeless teens with no hope and not wanting any hope a bunch of them came from abusive homes in one way or another.,.. a few had aids and just didnt want to suffer... and some that had aids and wanted to effect everyone they could....new orleans aids brigade(all bi sexual) would go out and give aids to anyone they could... most of them were killed by people they infected...



there was this one gay guy named kid...anyways one day he wanted to have sex with this one girl... odd because he didnt like girls but he did this one and she didnt want a damn thing to do with him... so he killed her strangled her....and well had sex with her for 2 weeks till others in the squat started to smell something and started to look for the smell and went into kids room and found a courps....well they turned him in and as far as i know he is still in prison....


 
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When Amanda was killed crossing the street after celebrating St. Patrick's Day - ALL of us wished it was a lie. It wasn't. Kids die for stupid reasons. Drunk drivers are the #1 reason.

That's not entirely true - the number one cause of death in teenagers is motor vehicle accidents. In roughly a third of those accidents alcohol was involved, but in a majority of accidents the cause was the idiocy and inexperience of youth - speeding, reckless driving, not using seatbelts etc.


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When Amanda was killed crossing the street after celebrating St. Patrick's Day - ALL of us wished it was a lie. It wasn't. Kids die for stupid reasons. Drunk drivers are the #1 reason.

That's not entirely true - the number one cause of death in teenagers is motor vehicle accidents. In roughly a third of those accidents alcohol was involved, but in a majority of accidents the cause was the idiocy and inexperience of youth - speeding, reckless driving, not using seatbelts etc.


Yup your right. All the more reason to remind them that cars kill and they are not invulnerable.

Many kids simply have not yet experienced the pain that goes along with death. If they can learn that without really losing a life then they are one step closer to responsibility and adulthood.

If these kids are lucky they will not get the opportunity to grieve for real..
 
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Several years ago, there were a couple of morning DJ's in St. Louis (I think) who did a prank call to one of their listeners. They told him his wife had been killed in a car wreck. That was not funny and they were fired for it.

Yet, to some of you, this is OK because it served a "worthy" cause? Would what those DJ's did be OK if it too had served a "worthy" cause?

This is bullshite and somebody ought to lose their job for it.
 
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alright we agree....

On this point, yes, we do - 100%.

Any liberal who agrees that this was an okay tactic with which to torment kids, simply because the eventual results might be worth it, is a complete hypocrite, and has no right to EVER criticize the tactics employed by the Bush administration in the run up to the Iraq war.


Were you ever a Boy Scout? Ever went on a Snipe Hunt? The principal is exactly the same except that instead of being the butt of a joke and getting laughed at, these kids might actually be encouraged to think about the consequences of drinking and driving.

I've never heard anybody criticize the Scouts for this "tactic" and it has absolutely no parallel with what the Bush admin did that actually cost lives instead of saving them.
 
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