my husband and i have been together 11 years and have four children....we have only been married for a year and a half and he is saying that he wants a divorce...he said it is becuase of the fights that we have and the money is his....I am only working part time so that obviously will not cover the expenses for four children....i think that he is cheating on me and I don't know what my rights are as a military spouse....Is there someone i can contact and what if this other person is in the military as well. please help