i am in the navy currently in "A" school here in great lakes IL and my wife wants to leave me can anyone tell me what she will get that is mine if and when the divorce is final and is there any chance i can keep my daughter she is no where near a "good mom" and i cant lose my baby girl any help and advice would be very appreciated

Are you sure she wants to leave you? When was the last time you went to see your daughter? How many times did you spend nights off of the base and you could have saved money to see your daughter, what makes you a good enough parent to take her from her Mother when you can't be faithful for your first year of marriage and your first time away from home? I'm sure if she takes you back it would be a train wreck. When are you going to support your wife and daughter instead of playing the field and committing adultery, you are a Catholic aren't you? What kind of role model would you be for your daughter? And as for your wife being a good Mother, she does way more than you do. Don't be a coward and answer the questions.

I REALLY NEED HELP I AM LOST AND I REALLY DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO

i have not done any of that i am in il and she is in pa so i cant see her

None of the above posts have anything to so with the stated purpose of this particular forum.

Who filed for divorce? Why don't you call her and work things out?

she said she was going to but i think i am going to have to file now. no i have NOT called her at all

You're an idiot. Do you think we wont notice this? and didnt your father in law find you on here once already?

Cease and desist now regarding this topic, or you will be banned. Got it?

edit: Oh wait....the one responding is your father in law

email out "to both of you"

either way take it off the boards.

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Hey you two,

Take your family problems some where else.

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