I know it will probly be awhile before Iam actually stationed with my boyfriend (husband by then ) Im thinking from what I read that he will be deployed pretty quickly since he's new.

But Im wondering what all the "other halves" do even if your other half is with you. Do you work outside of the home, full time mom? Was or is it hard to find work? I work in a spa now anyone else out there in the "beauty industry" profession?

I have done all - work outside the home, work and be mom, and be a stay at home Mom. It all depends on what is right for you. I haven't been home without kids - I would probably go crazy! But that's just my personality - I know some who do it and love it. Mostly I just kept busy, between work, kids, FRG, etc. Trying to find a little time to myself to, for some relaxing/fun things.