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Imagine that your kid is sick, and getting worse. You take that kid to the doctor, right? Anything less would be child abuse, or in the very least, gross neglect. Unless, of course, your religion gets in the way.
http://www.cnn.com/2008/CRIME/06/19/faith.healer.deaths.ap/index.html Another teenager just died as a result of a family that believed in "faith healing" not bringing that child to the doctor. The kid died of a urinary tract blockage. It wouldn't have even required surgery! A simple catheter could have saved the kid! But no, the family tried to "pray it away". And at the age of 16, the kid technically made the decision himself. Of course, a lifetime of being told that medical treatment will send you to hell would probably sway his decision-making a bit. I call it brainwashing. I present this as an example of an extreme, fringe-group behavior. I do not hold any delusion that this is standard behavior for any major religious demographic. So, is this a fair practice of faith, or child abuse? Is this acceptable or not? I hear so many people say that all these non-religious things are "bad for children", but what about when religion kills the children? Please, discuss. This message has been edited. Last edited by: Whirled_Peas, |
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Peas;
This is not limited to Christians. With all the new age stuff out there I get asked this question a lot! When asked I stress that if the faith healer, raiki master,acupuncturist, holistic healer, and good old yogi myhatishairy, tells you after you ask, not to see a doctor, RUN, don't walk to and through, the exits!! The absolute sure sign of a quack is the admonition to not see a doctor of western medicine. Even worse, is when they tell you to discontinue your medications, as if you don't the "healing" will fail, or if you try and confirm that you are indeed healed, you will be worse off than before because of your lack of faith. I have known people who are healers, legitimate ones, and the very first thing they tell their clients, is to have it checked out within a couple of weeks. The reason for this caution is that they know the power of the mind can convince some that they are healed, when indeed they are NOT! I had the good fortune to meet a Christian healer years ago, he and I talked about it quite a bit and he himself told me to always give people these caveats, as he always did, before engaging in the healing attempt. With my own eyes I saw, and confirmed, some amazing things this man did. He returned to California and started a church there, which is still going strong and is known world wide. He has passed away, but his work is known well. One of the reasons I could not, with a clear conscience, stay, or ever join with the Jehova's Witnesses is their ban on blood transfusions. They will not allow this proceedure to be performed on their children or themselves due to proscription, "to not soil your hands with the blood of another." They also believe the blood is literally poison. Books have been written about it! There are other reasons as well but that one is a definite deal breaker for me. Thankfully there is a synthetic blood replace ment product that they can and will use but I don't think it can be administered in large amounts. The idea of watching a child die, when it is so easy to save them due to the brains God gave us, enrages me. My stand is this belief is O.K. for the parents, but when the life of a child is threatened the kid has no say in it, so the state authorities should step in and care for the child. Endangering a child for any reason is intolerable......period!! Be well sister............Tawodi This message has been edited. Last edited by: tawodi, |
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I know it's not limited to Christians. I've seen people who will only go to "witch doctors" and Reiki masters and acupuncturists, but won't step foot in a real doctor's clinic. Yes, some faith healers of various traditions are very skilled and effective, but we all know that certain things need medical intervention.
I believe in a mixed approach. If your body has the capability to heal itself, then "alternative therapies" (including prayer) could potentially speed your recovery. If you are being treated by a conventional doctor for an illness or injury, alternative therapies could help you, too. But I would never advocate that someone with a serious ailment uses only "alternative, new-age" therapies. Modern medicine works! If I get the flu, I don't go to a doctor (unless there were to be severe complications). I've practiced herbal medicine for years for the treatment of mild ailments. I use herbal and natural healing to HELP myself recover from things that my body would naturally heal over time. I believe in avoiding artificial chemicals as much as possible, because often, the side-effects aren't worth it. I only take prescription meds if they're absolutely needed. I think people rely on prescriptions too much. My boss at my last job, who had a Ph.D. in pharmacology, declared that I'd discovered the cure for the common cold. When a nasty flu bug hit everyone in our labs, he started to come down with symptoms. The cold lasted a week for everyone else. I gave him a three-day supply of one of my remedies. He was better two days later, and credits my herbal blend. (I didn't even catch the bug.) However, if the flu turns into pneumonia, you can bet your buttons that I'll be at a doctor's office, demanding a prescription! And if there's a life-threatening ailment, there's no excuse for not going to a real doctor! Headache that lasts a day: Reiki and a glass of water. Headache that lasts a month: Doctor and a CAT scan. Stomach ache that lasts an afternoon: Peppermint and ginger tea. Stomach ache that lasts several days or is accompanied by other severe symptoms: Emergency room. Sore throat that lasts a few days after a cold: Slippery elm tea and ice cream. Sore throat that lasts several weeks: Doctor! Knots in muscles: Massage. Lump in breast: Doctor. Throwing up because you drank too much: Boot to the head. (And water.) Throwing up because you ate tomatoes during a reported salmonella outbreak: Emergency room. So I agree... this isn't limited to Christians. It just seems that the ones who force their children to do it so dogmatically are these few extremist groups. As I said, I know that this is not a mainstream practice, and would never put this on anyone who doesn't do it. As an offshoot of this, what about the children who are being abused and killed by this new practice of "attachment therapy"? Have you heard about this? I could dig up some links, but I probably shouldn't while I'm at work. Do a Google search. It's a practice being performed specifically by fringe-groups of so-called Christians (once again, I know this is not what mainstream Christians do) to "cure" children of their "attachment" disorders and whatnot. It seems like it's common in Australia, too. There are also kids who are dying from "exorcisms". It's really really messed up, and scary. For all the people who ask why don't certain groups don't step up and openly condemn the bad behavior of the extremists from their own groups, I'd like to see intelligent Christians stand up and openly condemn the bad behavior of groups who subject their children to treatment (or lack of treatment) that kills the kids. I am grateful for your intelligent and compassionate reply to this thread. But then, I would expect nothing less from you, as you have proven yourself to be a level-headed man of true faith and a great deal of knowledge. |
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Blessings Whirled_Peas,
How are youo today? I pray that your recent ailment has been defeated adn that you are well. I will dive in here as it is one of my pet peeves and a soap box that I seem to be called to do as the Holy Spirit has not corrected this behavior in me.
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Greetings LJ, Yes, my shoulder is doing much better. Not 100% yet, but I'm pleased with the progress. I should be out of the sling by the middle of next week. No, you didn't start a debate war. At least, I certainly don't think so. Your views are consistent and precise. I don't know all the technical legal details, but I do see one glitch that might not fly in court (even though I personally agree with you). I don't know if a court can demand that someone provide legal proof of the validity of their faith. I'm not sure of how that part of the law works, but based on my current understanding of the law, people can believe whatever they want, and there's no requirement for validity or proof. A person's religious practice can be anything, as long as it doesn't violate other laws (ie. you can't have human sacrifices or smoke crack just because you say it's part of your religion). However, the bit with "faith healing" has walked the grey area between legal and illegal, and people are still fighting over it. For example, if a person truly believes that they're doing the best thing for their child by not going to a conventional doctor or not accepting a blood transfusion, how do you call that person a liar? The government recognizes the rights of people to practice religions and faiths other than Christianity, so as far as the LEGAL part is concerned, a person doesn't have to prove their beliefs solely on the Bible. So, how do you make them "prove it" legally? I don't know if there's a way, at least, not under our laws, and not without major risk to religious freedom. The next step would be to say that perhaps they can't force their beliefs on their children, but then we must ask, what beliefs are restricted? Children learn the religions of their parents. Christian parents take their kids to church, Jewish parents take their kids to synagogue. Muslim kids learn to pray five times a day. Wiccan kids learn to call the corners and invoke the deities. It would be wrong to tell parents that they can't teach their kids their religion or faith. So where do we draw the line? When something causes harm? Well, what causes harm? Having your kid join the gymnastics team puts your kid at risk. And as for the soul - parents of Faith A would feel that parents of Faith B are leading their kids on the road to damnation. If one group says that another group is causing harm to their children, where does it end? If you'll forgive the cliche, I was obviously playing devil's advocate there, but if you look at the legal perspective, it gets very sticky very fast. Obviously, on a human level, I think that these people who put their kids at risk of death because they refuse to see a doctor need to be stopped, and those kids need to be placed in protective custody. I consider it to be child abuse. But when we get into the legal aspects of "freedom of religion", it's a tough question of where it all ends. The line looks clear when we look at a case like this where an innocent child dies due to lack of medical care, but when you start messing with people's religions in a society in which freedom of religion is a cornerstone... It's so sticky, but it's so messed up, and my head just spins with the insanity of the extremes to which some of these people go, and the things they do to themselves and their children in the name of their bizarre faith. Well, let's see what the next person has to say. Like I said, I just put this out for discussion. Time and posts will indeed tell. |
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Blessings Whirled_Peas,
I am glad that you are proceeding towards total wellness. It does my heart and spirit good to hear that. I must apologize for keeping this post long and complete as it really gives me some pleasure to see honest discussion. I simply added some things to further my thoughts based on your stellar questions.
I also await other poster's comments. LJ |
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I don't have time to reply fully, but I wanted to drop a quick note to say that I think I slightly mis-read what you intended, and I apologize for that. I see where you're going with it now, and I think we're on the same page. I don't have time to elaborate - I'm heading out for the next two days. It's Solstice (tonight at 11:54 PM central time), and I quite literally have an appointment to meet with God tonight. I can't be late for that.
Be well, and I promise to return the discussion in-depth when I return. I enjoy reading what you have to write, and again, I apologize that I thought you meant something slightly different. |
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Blessings Whirled_Peas,
No problem it is the Sabbath and a day that I also must be particularly careful to honor the Lord. May you have a blessed time and return safe and secure. I definitely understood that I whad not been as clear as I would have liked. Thank you for the time you have shared in reading my post and the assistance that you have providing in helping me to sharpen my writing comprehension skills. LJ
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I have stated on numerous occasions that I am struggling with bone cancer. My doctors have repeatedly told me that my condition is "treatable but incurable". Do I believe them? Yes and no. I believe that they are being as honest as possible under the circumstances. Over the course of the last 4 years the medical profession has pretty-much affirmed what I have known all along: 1] They are not all-knowing; 2] They do not walk on water; 3] They really don't know how to cure anything. Therefore, I very strongly advise that one should NOT go to the doctors or seek medical advice unless one has all of the above limitations firmly fixed in their mind AND one has some very clear ideas as to just what it is that they expect from the medical doctors. In short, not to put too fine a point on it, I think that anyone who goes running to the doctors at the least hint of a medical prloblem is being rather STUPID! Can one find help with the medical profession? Yes. Can one find help through faith healers? Yes. Can one find help through "witches and witch doctors"? Maybe. Should one reject any or all of the above out of hand? Perhaps. I am informed through the pages of my Bible that God both can and will heal me. Therefore I accept that on face value. Since it is manifest, however, that God has choosen not to heal me at this time, I have turned to the medical profession for answers to some of my immediate needs. This is in no way a rejection of God's promises, but rather, a search for answers to my immediate needs which are otherwise going unanswered. When I go to the hospital with my medical needs I have both definite ideas as to what I expect and what their limitations are. So I do not put my complete confidence in the medical profession, whom I do believe is trying to serve me. On the other hand, I do put my complete confidence in God, who has promised and who cannot lie, that He will, in a time of His choosing, heal me completely. Do I condemn anyone who relies upon God and faith for healing? NO! Do I condemn anyone who seeks help from medical doctors? No. Do I condemn someone who, like myself, might seek help from both sources? Not at all, they may be the wisest of all. I think that in all cases one must make an informed decision about one's health and I do not view any decision as "final". |
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Airdefender1968;
God bless you and know that HE is the ultimate healer. He may work through a medical doctor and heal someone (prayerfully you and also my sister) or HE may heal other areas of one's life as HE sees fit. You seem to have strong faith in the LORD so then you know that HE is the ultimate healer be it here or when one departs for glory. I really prayfor a total healing for you while you are here to give HIM the praise and glory for a miraculous restoration. GOD bless you my good friend. |
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How do you stand on when a court allowed a child kidnapping to become in the same hour, full custody change> with NO reason given for taking the child..or for asking for custody.?
Just, I am her gramma, I want her. I am two and half YEARS into hearings that mock every LAW on the books, because Monterey Court refuses and refused to ever investigate this gramma, and condoned her kidnapping our daughter out of kindergarden. On the subject of faith healing, my child could use your prayers. So could I, I live in a hell. the worst and most real part of this insanity, is that ole gramma (my mom) always was, and always will be, Munchausen syndrome made me by proxy, my sister, and our kids if she can gain access. While the court handed her the paperwork to keep our child hostage, sheryl has been continuing her syndrome on our daughter. Collette now has a broken nose, a malnourished body of weakened (whip cream and water is "milk") immunity deliberately, because every month, Collie is SICK, and then there are those ER trips, clinics, and all of the hidden from us parents trips to doctors going on. I was smothered, attempted murdered age 14 by this same beast,and this court judge calls me names, and wont read reason, and gave gramma guardianship also. Now munchausen has a planned disappearance at the end of this month. A move. Far, and unknown address. NOTHING I did, nor her father, just kidnapped BY psychosis, and AIDED BY MONTEREY COURT. SOS Help us. Spread this truth, if someone you know is an atty , we have hired and let go, at great cost, eight?? I have lost count. Nobody helps her. Not cps, Not police. Not teachers. Not the media. I keep writing, I keep asking. I plead officials, the state offices, the same county corruption is throughtout Monterey, the DA secreatarty refuses to make a call back to me, since 2003. As you can see.. Monterey decided to take a stance to help a killer kill my baby. I am beside myself in grief, and I am asking for helpers. Maybe letters can help where the "appropriate" people ignore the reality horror of this. Letters by email go to collettesmama@hotmail or 618 Lighthouse Ave Pacific Grove, ca 93950 and I will group post them or I dunno, drop them in front of the judge who wanted to do this to our child. It is called an ILLEGALcustody change. And the judges did it. Can anyone please write and help? Heather mommie of her Collette Fisher |
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i havent had time to read all these posts but i am going to try and get back into the swing of this tonight. finally got my dh home so i have been off line for the past few weeks...
just wanted to throw some info on here. i am a reiki master and have been studying natural healing for the past ten years. i started doing this b.c of the illness i have and i wanted more options then the ones that where offered to me ten years ago. i started then just looking into things for myself, but since then i have been working with many others when it comes to natural healing as well. i guess first i want to say that any good natural healer will never say to go off a plan that a doctor has you on, ever end of story. i still always call my doctor if my kids are sick, and if something with my pain levels are different than normal. i work with both and wouldnt ever have it one way. i am lucky enough to have a doctor that will work with me on both natural healing and the medical flied.. so i guess my opinion on this is yes i think its abuse. even healers know when to ask for doctors help.. wen |
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In Rhode Island a few years ago a couple was tried and convicted for manslaughter per reckless child endangerment by refusing to bring their child to qualified medical practioners.
There may have been some who objected on religous grounds, but I never saw it in print or heard it on the radio. There have been many changes in medicine which constitute Holistic therapy, these things include, raiki, therapeutic massage, acupunture, alpha imaging, bio-feedback, treatment of pain as a disease process, instead of a symptom, etc. etc, too many to count, all of these measures come under the heading of treating the person who happens to be ill rather than the machine which is broken. All of these are good, when properly conjoined in good medical practice. After all, it wasn't too long ago that Chiropractors were considered criminals in some states!! Now I, as a Christian, upon seeing a child neglected in this way, would act immediately for three reasons. 1. I am a mandated reporter by statute requirements, in the State of Massachussetts. This is because I work with the aged, and children, and have set up safe sanctuary programs in several churches. 2. If a child is killed due to this neglect and I didn't act, there are two things that can be laid at my door. The death of the child and the accusation that another has been killed because of some hairbrained Christian idjit! 3. I can go to JAIL!!! T |
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